Were you in an abusive relationship? -- Are you out of danger now? -- How could this have happened? -- The hidden horror : sexual abuse -- How could you have loved an abuser? -- Abuse of men by women, and abuse in gay, lesbian, and transgender relationships.
Losing your partner, your dream, your life -- When feelings overwhelm you -- Signs of unfinished healing -- What about the children? -- The reactions of others.
Practical considerations -- Beginning to heal -- Believing in yourself -- The temptation to go back -- Is your abuser still in your life? -- Loving again.